BDSM: 9 Sexy Different Types of BDSM

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BDSM: 9 Sexy Different Types of BDSM

The word BDSM which stands for Bondage, Dominance, Sadism, and Masochism. Have you heard of it? BDSM is typically misunderstood to only include the most intense forms of sex, when in fact there are many different forms of BDSM that partners can enjoy.

For some the fantasy is enough for them, while for others, they want to really experience that painful pleasure.

What is important to know is that is trust does not matter if you are a novice or an expert in BDSM. What matters is that you gain pleasure from it and that you and your partner are on the same page. 

Below are some of the different kinds of kinky play that may peak your naughty interest!

 

BDSM: 9 Sexy Different Types of BDSM

Sensory Deprivation

The sense organs are usually alert and awake because the brain sends signals to them. They also work hand in hand so when one is dulled, the other one becomes magnified. For instance, if your eye is being blindfolded by your partner with a scarf or mask, your sense of touch, smell and taste awaken.

If you want to make it even kinkier, with the blindfolds on, give your partner a headset to wear too.

With that, the sight is not only deprived but hearing too and they are left with no choice than to succumb to every stimulus gotten from touch.

 

Sensation Play

This should come right after you have deprived your partner in the use of certain senses. This is where you play with their head and get then ready for the real deal. It’s just like the foreplay in missionary sex.

Try using different sensations like hot and cold, rough and smooth, firm and light, fast and slow. You could use ice cubes, feathers, and forks in achieving this. The aim here is to get extremely erotic with your partner until they are ready for you.

 

BDSM: 9 Sexy Different Types of BDSM

Impact Play

Erotic play can be very intoxicating to some people. To start with, your endorphins start pumping which causes a feeling of euphoria. You don’t have to get brutal for your partner to enjoy impact play, minor floggings can do the trick.

Before you get rough and kinky, make sure you know when and where to hit so you don’t end up spoiling the fun.

For the euphoric feeling to start reeling in, it takes up to 10 minutes. You should start by hitting her lightly and only increase after the 10 minutes warm-up.

Make sure you don’t hit the same spot over and over again because it might turn from pleasure to extreme pain.

The most popular place for hitting during impact play is the ass and back of the thighs. Some other suitable spots include the nipples, the upper back, and the vagina.

But whichever part you are hitting, always bear in mind that each area has different intensities to which they adjust to.

You are not expected to spank someone’s genitals as hard as you spank their butt- you may end up hurting them. Also make sure that you avoid bony places like the ribs, neck and other parts of the abdomen, it may lead to serious injury.

If you don’t want to strike with your hands, you may consider using other objects like wooden spoons, hairbrush, hardcover books, and back scratchers, and other BDSM toys.Try experimenting with them to know which one that causes a sharper pain.

 

Cock and Ball Torture

This is a sexual activity that involves inflicting pain on the penis or testicles. The pain can be inflicted directly through flogging, spanking, erotic electro-stimulation, kneeling or kicking.

The recipient of such activities may receive direct physical pleasure via masochism, or emotional pleasure through erotic humiliation, or knowledge that the play is pleasing to a sadistic dominant. Many of these practices carry significant health risks.

 

BDSM: 9 Sexy Different Types of BDSM

Golden Shower

This is otherwise known as urophile or urolagnia. It is a sexual excitement that comes as a result of seeing a person urinating or the thought.

Urophilia is a paraphilia and in this case, the urine might be consumed or the person ends up having a urine bath. Some people induce their partner into wanting to urinate to get aroused. For others, just the smell of it gets them ready for the game. During BDSM, the submissive is strictly forbidden from placing their lips on the body of the dominant so that the urine can splash all over their face and hairs.

In some other cases, the dominant will be required to urinate inside the vagina of the submissive then she will have to get it ejected through the orifice. But it should be noted that whatever the sub is not comfortable with should be respected.  It is important to always keep BDSM safe. 

 

Tickle Torture

Tickle torture is the act of tickling with the sole purpose of abusing, harassing, dominating or humiliating the individual. In a tickling situation, the only response which is expected from the person being tickled is laughter. However, in situations where the dominant tickles the submissive, it might cause real physical and mental distress. Tickling is usually carried out at the sole of the feet because it is very sensitive.

Other suitable areas to be tickled includes the palm, the armpit, ribs, neck, thighs and navel. So in some cases, the submissive is subject to a 20 -30 minutes tickle torture. In other cases, the submissive is tied up with a rope and only the feet are exposed to experience a tickling spree.

 

BDSM: 9 Sexy Different Types of BDSM

Wax Play

It can also be called temperature play. The whole idea of wax play is to introduce a slight burning sensation to the skin. This particular one requires extreme care because the skin might end up having some burns if it goes wrong.

Before applying the wax, rub mineral oil or lotion on the strategic areas to facilitate the easy removal of the wax.

The heat tolerance of individuals varies so you have to consider that before buying your candle. Some candles range from warm and soothing to dangerously hot wax so you have to be cautious when shopping for them.

The only key to wax play is extreme carefulness so you won’t end up burning down a house instead of having fun.

 

Pussy Torture

You may choose to call it vulva torture, cunt torture or female geniture but they mean the same thing. It is the type of BDSM that entails applying pressure to the vulva or vagina.

The pain can be inflicted through ways like wax play, fisting, squeezing, caning, figging which means inserting ginger into the vagina, use of clamps, pussy spreader, sex machine, use of the oversized dildo and so on.

This practice requires extreme carefulness because it might lead to serious medical care if an injury occurs in the process.

 

BDSM: 9 Sexy Different Types of BDSM

Suspension

This is an act where the submissive is hung from one or more points of suspension. This particular practice poses more risk than other forms of BDSM.

For partial suspension, the individual is bound in a way that just a part of their weight is held by suspension ropes.

The classic partial suspension position is to have the person balancing on one foot with part of their weight supported through a chest harness and the other leg pulled up in some direction.

For full suspension, the individual relies completely on suspension ropes and cable.

They have no contact with the ground in this case so the person’s ability to remain suspended remains on their endurance or the ability of the binder.

The effect of suspension is vulnerability and the dominant enjoys watching the submissive dangling in fear and struggling to be free. If anything goes out of place, the person might come crashing to the floor so there is a need to be extremely cautious.

Conclusion

BDSM has proven to be more than we think we know. There are other forms of play but this should be enough to feed your brain with what you need.

Sex is meant to be enjoyed in the best way you deem fit so there should be no limitations to exploring with your submissive.

There is this powerful feeling that comes with being the boss but if you are the submissive it is still not a bad side.

The whole exercise is either freaky or fearful, depending on how careful you are. You should also read BDSM: 10 Awesome Tools to Tie Up Your Partner For BDSM to be guided on the equipment to use.

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