What Is Bondage Like For Males And Females? 9 Sexy Idea’s

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What is bondage like for males and females? 9 Sexy Idea's

Bondage is part of the activities of BDSM. It’s the “B” in the BDSM which is an acronym for bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, sadism and masochism. BDSM offers a wide range of safe elements that makes acts erotic. Bondage is one of them and quite popular among people.

Bondage is a type of sex play where one partner restrains another for pleasure. It is about putting another person in charge of your pleasure. Most people believe that the delayed gratification in BDSM activities including bondage amounts to a more powerful orgasm. It is also practiced solo during masturbation.

There are different reasons why people enjoy it: to please a partner, they like the feeling of being in control, or they love the idea of being used. Whatever reason is great as long as it is consensual.

It involves a lot of kinky stuff including restraints, handcuffs, ropes, blindfolds, gags, bandages, sex furniture, cages, and chaining. It may be used as an end itself or in conjunction with other BDSM practices which until ten years ago was classified as a mental problem.

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Types Of Bondage

Bondage ranges from loosely tied rope to the shibari. Here are the different types you can try.

 

Sensory deprivation

Whenever the use of one sensory organ is blocked, the awareness of the other organs is heightened. Sensory deprivation is the use of restraints to reduce your ability to see, hear or feel things. Regarded as one of the extreme types of bondage, sensory deprivation involves the use of leather masks that covers the eyes and ears, hoods, blindfolds, or in extreme cases, sensory deprivation chambers. The commonest of this type is blindfold. Gagging also falls under this category.

 

What is bondage like for males and females? 9 Sexy Idea's

Shibari

This is one of the oldest and most popular kinds. Also called kinbaku, it has its origins from Japan. Shibari is known as the use of silk ropes, and artful to portray the bound partner as a work of art. The element of the display is what sets this type of bondage aside from the others. If you enjoy being bound up and displayed like artwork, then this is for you.

 

What is bondage like for males and females? 9 Sexy Idea's

Torture bondage

Under this type, people are left tied up for hours in an uncomfortable position. Pain is the keyword here. This form of bondage is usually used to punish slaves. People who are deep into sadism enjoy torture bondage.

 

What is bondage like for males and females? 9 Sexy Idea's

Facial bondage

Unlike gagging which focuses on using restraints only on the mouth, facial bondage involved the entire face; eyes, nose, cheeks, everything. It deals with the claustrophobia-inducing part of wrapping up the face. Bondage masks, Gas masks, Saran wrap with holes cut in it, nose rings all fall under facial bondage.

 

Predicament bondage

One peculiar thing with this type is that it’s more uncomfortable than the regulars. This is why many people find it attractive. Predicament bondage can take many forms; being forced to ride a horse while tied in an awkward position, being hogtied with a massager across the clitoris, and so on. The aim of the whole thing is to mark the submissive partner uncomfortable.

 

What is bondage like for males and females? 9 Sexy Idea's

Restrictive bondage

This is the commonest under the this umbrella. As the name sounds, it is the act of restricting a person’s movement with the use of handcuffs, rope, leather, and other things. Almost everyone who is into this has tried this once or twice. The feeling of powerlessness and control in restrictive bondage is a turn on for partners who practice bondage.

 

Humiliation bondage

This is a type that deals more with the mental aspect of a person than the physical. For some people, it’s not the act that makes a BDSM kink hot, but the concept behind it. Any act that involves humiliation of the submissive partner falls under this category. It could be tying up someone in the public for others to point and laugh or using a gag that has a toilet brush on the end and forcing a “slave” to clean the toilet.

 

Tight-lacing

This doubles as a type of bondage and as a fashion statement. Partners who practice this where corset which tightens their waist and shrinks down your waistline. The commonest corset today is titanium-boned and steel-boned corsets. Most times, wearing a corset is not a turn-on for the wearer but boosts their confidence in having an hourglass shape.

 

Suspension

This deals with hanging a person from the ceiling or other tall heights. This could be done using different methods like leather, shibari, rope, and sometimes meat hooks which pierce through the shoulders. The suspension is one of the types of play you don’t practice without a specially trained professional around. It’s terrifying and not all BDSM lovers can do this.

 

Hair bondage

The name describes what this type entails or covers. It will make you think twice about wearing a ponytail. It is mostly done to restrict movement and adds a certain psychological layer of submission. Others find it attractive due to the appealing “pulling” sensation attached to it. Hair pulling can be dangerous and requires special skills. Your hair might come loose in the process.

 

What Bondage Is Like For Men And Women

Research shows that about “11 percent of men and 17 percent of women have reported trying bondage. Also, 5 to 10 percent of the U.S. population engages in sadomasochism at least on an occasional basis. Moreover, a 2005 survey conducted by Durex reports that 36 percent of adults in the United States use masks, blindfolds, and bondage tools during sex, compared to 20 percent worldwide.”

Other research also states that the number of persons that engage in BDSM is between 2 percent and 62 percent.

These statistics show that more people daily engage in BDSM and it’s sexual acts. In the numbers above, the number of women who love BDSM is greater than that of men. This is not to say that a greater percentage of men do not enjoy it, however, that of women is higher.

Surveys carried out by individuals and groups also show that men and women have an interest in it.

If you wish to introduce kink into your bedroom, no need to be ashamed of it. Talk to your partner, they may be willing to try it too. Remember, consensual is one of the keywords of bondage and BDSM generally. A couple who practice BDSM agree prior to the act, the extent they wish to go, how they desire to be bound, the safe word, amongst others. This reduces the risk of injuries or harm. However, both partners find control sexy. Either one likes being in control or like to be controlled.

New individuals who wish to try BDSM for the first time are advised to start with the simple, easy ones like tying a rope loosely and using not-too-tight handcuffs. Ensure that an expert or professional is around before you practice more risk-prone bondage including suspension.

Some men like it, some don’t. Some women like it, some don’t. Each person is however different in their desires. There is nothing that all men or women alike. Searching for what men and women like may be a futile effort. So focus on your partner. Find out what they want and go with it.

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